Why Do Some Indiviual's Text Reply Etc Take So Long ?

You know earlier this morning this is what I woke up to, this text conversation of away with questions and answers being thrown out of context. My thing is! And I know that also individuals out there find the long waiting aspect of a reply text could be quite annoying and time-wasting. I don't like phones that much as I never liked the idea of all the chatter :)) Anyway back to the point! I'm an individual who is very straightforward, I like to say what is in my heart not my mind as the mind can be easily manipulated if you get what I mean and if you don't well that is another area for discussion. First off when anyone calls me by phone and they are talking to someone in the background and do not address themselves to the call I basically hang up after I make myself known without getting a response from the individual on the other end. When anyone texted me and I have to be the only person texting as in replying as I carry the conversation to and fro, well th...