You know earlier this morning this is what I woke up to, this text conversation of away with questions and answers being thrown out of context.
My thing is! And I know that also individuals out there find the long waiting aspect of a reply text could be quite annoying and time-wasting.
I don't like phones that much as I never liked the idea of all the chatter :))
Anyway back to the point! I'm an individual who is very straightforward, I like to say what is in my heart not my mind as the mind can be easily manipulated if you get what I mean and if you don't well that is another area for discussion.
First off when anyone calls me by phone and they are talking to someone in the background and do not address themselves to the call I basically hang up after I make myself known without getting a response from the individual on the other end.
When anyone texted me and I have to be the only person texting as in replying as I carry the conversation to and fro, well that's the time for me to just find something else to do and discontinue the call with 'Bye I'll text you sometime".
I should not be in a conversation with someone whether it's a phone call or text and have to be the messenger, speaker, and interpreter, what sense is it to the conversation as it should be a two-way conversation, not a one-way one confusion.
And then there is the long wait between each text, hey what's really up with that, Why the long wait for a reply?
It is just annoying these new ways and methods that have some individuals all caught up.
Why do some individuals text someone and don't know what to say, or you're going to fall asleep on the call, or even worst, you forget that you were talking to someone? Seriously?
This one really takes the cake, texting someone and just forget you were talking to them hmm!
Some individuals will call me rude well I speak the truth, this is just an ignorant way, and when I see this kind of conversation I just get out of the way.
Another one I see happening often that I find really rude and this is where the context of rude should really come in :) and that is individuals doing business and texting away just ignoring the person that is addressing or trying to assist them.
This one I never do as when someone comes to do business with me and I don't have their attention I always tell them to get back to me when they are ready for service and it's not being rude it's just me justifying my way of doing things with the right procedures.
You know! I was told that I can not take criticism but I had to tell the individual never to get mix up with the meaning of the two words.
Criticism and directions are two different words with different meanings.
I don't criticize and I don't allow criticism
I allow inspiration motivation love and growth.
Criticism weakens the core, and anything that can not help build me I reject just as simple as that criticism is not a builder but a breaker and I'm not broken nor do I want to be weakened or broken and I'm not in for any weakening but building.
Directing someone to do better that's direction and motivation and that I understand.
Criticizing someone to break them to do nothing but deteriorate by not compelling themselves to go on to do better or go further because of being criticized is not right.
As I said I do the direction motivation course and anyone who understands what it means will know and understand what I'm saying.
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